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Supporting a Loved One with Addiction: Guidance, Solutions, and Hope
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Supporting a Loved One with Addiction: Guidance, Solutions, and Hope

When someone you care about is struggling with Substance Use Disorder (SUD) or a behavioral addiction (such as gambling, pornography, or compulsive eating), it can feel overwhelming. You may experience fear, frustration, or helplessness. Addiction is not simply a matter of willpower—it is a complex condition involving brain chemistry, emotional regulation, and environmental triggers.

The good news: help is available, and recovery is possible with the right support.

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Motivation for Using The Sinclair Method
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Motivation for Using The Sinclair Method

The Sinclair Method offers a science-based alternative to traditional abstinence-only approaches, helping people reduce drinking by retraining the brain’s reward system. While highly effective for many, it requires discipline, medical oversight, and integration with lifestyle changes to achieve lasting recovery.

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Acute vs. Chronic Alcoholism: Understanding the Difference
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Acute vs. Chronic Alcoholism: Understanding the Difference

Acute alcoholism refers to short-term, high-intensity drinking episodes (often binge drinking), while chronic alcoholism is a long-term, progressive condition marked by dependence and lasting health consequences. Both require different treatment approaches, and binge drinking sits on a dangerous line that can tip into chronic addiction.

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Recovery Beyond Abstinence: The Power of Meditation, Awareness, Connection, and Movement
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Recovery Beyond Abstinence: The Power of Meditation, Awareness, Connection, and Movement

Recovery from substance use or behavioral addictions is not simply about stopping the addictive behavior—it’s about building a new way of living. As an addiction specialist, I’ve seen countless individuals discover that true healing comes from nurturing the mind, body, and spirit. Five practices stand out as pillars of sustainable recovery: meditation, awareness, community connection, reconnecting with old friends, and physical exercise

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Chronic Alcoholism: The Battle Beneath the Surface
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Chronic Alcoholism: The Battle Beneath the Surface

Alcoholism is not simply “drinking too much.” It is a chronic, progressive illness that rewires the brain, erodes relationships, and devastates health. For those caught in its grip, the struggle is not just about alcohol—it’s about the insidious cycle of relapse, the phenomenon of craving, and the baffling inability to stop despite devastating consequences.

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Alcoholism & Drug Addiction: Why Treatment Is Essential
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Alcoholism & Drug Addiction: Why Treatment Is Essential

Addiction is often misunderstood. Many people see it as a matter of willpower, a bad habit, or a moral failing. But as an addiction specialist, I know the truth: alcoholism and drug addiction are chronic medical conditions that demand treatment. Left unaddressed, they erode health, relationships, and purpose. Managed with care, they can become the foundation for profound transformation.

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Dopamine on Overdrive: A Wake-Up Call for Parents Navigating Teen Habits
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Dopamine on Overdrive: A Wake-Up Call for Parents Navigating Teen Habits

The Dopamine Dilemma: Why It Matters

As an addiction specialist, I’ve seen firsthand how seemingly harmless habits—like fast food binges and endless scrolling—can evolve into patterns that hijack the brain’s reward system. At the heart of it all is dopamine, the neurotransmitter responsible for pleasure, motivation, and reinforcement. When teens repeatedly engage in high-stimulation activities, their brains adapt by demanding more to feel the same level of satisfaction. This is the slippery slope toward behavioral addiction.

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Loving Someone with Cocaine and Alcohol Addiction: A Message to the Spouse
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Loving Someone with Cocaine and Alcohol Addiction: A Message to the Spouse

If you’re married to someone battling cocaine and alcohol addiction, you already know the chaos it brings. The lies. The broken promises. The emotional rollercoaster. You’ve likely asked yourself, “How much more can I take?” And that’s not weakness—it’s wisdom.

Addiction is a disease, but it’s also a tornado. It doesn’t just destroy the person using—it pulls in everyone around them. As an addiction specialist, I’ve worked with countless spouses who are torn between love and survival. This blog is for you.

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Harm Reduction: A Lifeline, Not a Loophole
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Harm Reduction: A Lifeline, Not a Loophole

Harm reduction is a compassionate, evidence-based approach to addiction treatment. It prioritizes safety, dignity, and incremental healing—especially for those struggling with opioid use disorder (OUD). Two of the most effective tools in this model are methadone and Suboxone (buprenorphine/naloxone), both classified as Medication-Assisted Treatments (MATs).

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Why Awareness Is the Key to Relapse Prevention
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Why Awareness Is the Key to Relapse Prevention

As an addiction specialist, I often tell my clients: recovery isn’t just about quitting a substance—it’s about understanding your brain. Addiction hijacks the mind in ways that make relapse not just possible, but likely—unless we learn to recognize and respond to the internal tug-of-war between our emotional and logical selves.

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The Slippery Slope of Switching Substances: Trading One Addiction for Another
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Slippery Slope of Switching Substances: Trading One Addiction for Another

Recovery isn’t just about quitting a substance—it’s about changing a lifestyle, rewiring the brain, and healing the spirit. But one of the most common traps I see in early recovery is the belief that switching substances is safer than stopping altogether. For example, someone who’s quit marijuana and cocaine might think, “I’ll just drink socially now—it’s legal, it’s normal, it’s not my problem.”

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Chronic Marijuana Use and Behavioral Addictions: A Hidden Link
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Chronic Marijuana Use and Behavioral Addictions: A Hidden Link

As an addiction specialist, I’ve seen firsthand how substance use and behavioral addictions often intertwine in complex and surprising ways. One of the most overlooked relationships is the correlation between chronic marijuana use and behavioral addictions such as pornography and video gaming. While these behaviors may seem unrelated on the surface, they often share underlying psychological mechanisms—and when combined, they can reinforce each other in ways that deepen dependency and impair functioning.

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20 Things to Watch Out for at 30 Days Sober
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

20 Things to Watch Out for at 30 Days Sober

Thirty days sober is a powerful milestone. It’s proof that change is possible, that healing has begun, and that the fog is lifting. But it’s also a vulnerable time. The brain is still recalibrating, emotions are raw, and the temptation to “test the waters” can creep in. As an addiction specialist, I’ve seen this phase make or break recovery. Here are 20 things every newly sober person should watch out for—and how to stay grounded in your new life.

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Loving Someone with Addiction: The Courage to Set Boundaries and Follow Through
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Loving Someone with Addiction: The Courage to Set Boundaries and Follow Through

Living with a partner who suffers from addiction is one of the most emotionally complex experiences a person can face. You love them. You’ve built a life together. You’ve seen their potential, their tenderness, their dreams. But addiction doesn’t care about love—it hijacks the brain, distorts behavior, and erodes trust.

As an addiction specialist, I’ve worked with countless spouses and partners who feel torn between compassion and survival. They ask: “How do I help without losing myself?” “When do I draw the line?” “What do I do when promises are broken again and again?”

This blog is for you.

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The First 30 Days: Why Detox Is the Gateway to Healing
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The First 30 Days: Why Detox Is the Gateway to Healing

In the world of addiction recovery, few steps are as critical—or as misunderstood—as detox. It’s often seen as a hurdle to get past, a painful necessity before “real” treatment begins. But as an addiction specialist, I see detox differently. It’s not just a medical process—it’s a sacred reset. It’s the moment when the mind, body, and spirit begin to reclaim their original rhythm after being hijacked by substances.

The first 30 days of detox are intense, yes—but they’re also profoundly transformative.

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The Power of Humility in Early Recovery: Why Less Is More
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Power of Humility in Early Recovery: Why Less Is More

Recovery is not a sprint—it’s a slow, deliberate walk back to yourself. In the early stages, it’s tempting to believe that now that the substance is gone, life should resume at full speed. But here’s the truth: early recovery is sacred ground. It’s where the foundation is laid, and humility is the cornerstone.

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The Power of Recovery: Why Honesty with Yourself Is Everything
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Power of Recovery: Why Honesty with Yourself Is Everything

Recovery isn’t just about quitting a substance or behavior—it’s about reclaiming your life. It’s about waking up each day with clarity, purpose, and the ability to face yourself in the mirror without flinching. And at the heart of every successful recovery journey lies one non-negotiable principle: radical honesty with oneself.

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The Highs and Lows of Early Sobriety: Managing Stress and Over-Excitement
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Highs and Lows of Early Sobriety: Managing Stress and Over-Excitement

Early sobriety is a fragile, powerful time. For many, it feels like waking up after years of emotional numbness. Suddenly, everything is louder—joy, fear, hope, anxiety. But here’s the paradox: both stress and over-excitement can be dangerous in early recovery. As an addiction specialist, I’ve seen how these emotional extremes can trigger relapse if not understood and managed.

Let’s explore why this happens—and how to stay grounded while rebuilding your life.

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Early Sobriety and Social Triggers: Why Sporting Events and Parties Can Be Dangerous—and How to Stay Safe
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Early Sobriety and Social Triggers: Why Sporting Events and Parties Can Be Dangerous—and How to Stay Safe

Early recovery is a fragile, powerful time. You’ve made the courageous decision to step away from alcohol or drugs, and you’re beginning to rebuild your life. But then comes the invitation: a birthday party, a wedding, a sporting event. It sounds harmless—fun, even. But for someone with Alcohol Use Disorder (AUD) or Substance Use Disorder (SUD), these environments can be emotional minefields.

As an addiction specialist, I’ve seen countless people relapse not because they didn’t care about their recovery—but because they underestimated the power of triggers in social settings. Let’s talk about why these situations are risky, and more importantly, how to protect your sobriety when the pressure hits.

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Never Give Up: Why Healing Is Still Possible After Relapse
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Never Give Up: Why Healing Is Still Possible After Relapse

Relapse. It’s a word that carries weight, shame, and often a sense of defeat. But here’s the truth that doesn’t get said enough: relapse is not the end of your recovery—it’s part of the journey. And if you’ve found yourself back in the cycle, again and again, I want you to know this: you are not broken, and you are not alone.

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