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Trauma Therapy and Long‑Term Recovery: Why Healing the Wound Heals the Addiction
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Trauma Therapy and Long‑Term Recovery: Why Healing the Wound Heals the Addiction

The longer I work in addiction treatment, the clearer one truth becomes: addiction is rarely the core problem — it is the coping mechanism. Beneath alcohol, cocaine, cannabis, pornography, gambling, or any compulsive behaviour, there is almost always unresolved trauma. Not always the dramatic kind people imagine, but often the quiet, chronic, emotional injuries that shape how a person sees themselves and the world.

This is why trauma therapy is not just helpful in recovery — it is essential. Without healing the wound, the symptom returns. When trauma is addressed directly, long‑term recovery becomes not only possible, but sustainable.

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Non‑Alcoholic Drinks in Early Sobriety: A Helpful Harm‑Reduction Tool — But Not a Long‑Term Solution
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Non‑Alcoholic Drinks in Early Sobriety: A Helpful Harm‑Reduction Tool — But Not a Long‑Term Solution

In recent years, non‑alcoholic drinks have exploded in popularity. You can now find alcohol‑free beers, wines, spirits, mocktails, and craft beverages in almost every grocery store, bar, and restaurant. For people in early recovery, this trend can feel like a gift: finally, a way to participate socially without feeling deprived or singled out.

As an addiction therapist, I see the value these drinks can offer — especially in the early stages of sobriety. But I also see the risks. Non‑alcoholic drinks can be a harm‑reduction tool, but they are not a long‑term solution for stopping drinking. Understanding the difference is essential.

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Naltrexone: A Powerful Tool — But Not the Whole Solution
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Naltrexone: A Powerful Tool — But Not the Whole Solution

Naltrexone is one of the most effective medications we have for supporting sobriety, but it is often misunderstood. It is not a cure, not a permanent fix, and not a replacement for personal growth. Instead, it functions as a biochemical safety net — an insurance policy that reduces the severity of relapse and helps people maintain long‑term sobriety while they build the emotional, behavioural, and psychological skills needed for lasting change.

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When a Loved One Leaves Rehab: What Families Can Expect, What to Watch For, and How to Support Long‑Term Recovery
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

When a Loved One Leaves Rehab: What Families Can Expect, What to Watch For, and How to Support Long‑Term Recovery

When someone you love completes a 30‑day or longer residential treatment program, it is natural to feel hopeful — even relieved. Rehab is a powerful intervention. It provides structure, safety, detox support, therapy, and distance from triggers. But as an addiction specialist, I remind families of a difficult truth:

Rehab is the beginning of recovery, not the completion of it.

The real work begins the moment your loved one walks out the door and re‑enters the world that fueled their addiction. Understanding what to expect — and how to support them — can make the difference between sustained recovery and relapse.

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The Neurochemical Collision: Understanding the Triad of Alcohol, Cocaine, and Compulsive Pornography
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Neurochemical Collision: Understanding the Triad of Alcohol, Cocaine, and Compulsive Pornography

Alcohol, cocaine, and compulsive pornography use form one of the most volatile and clinically challenging addiction combinations I see as a specialist. Each one independently alters the brain’s reward circuitry — but together, they create a feedback loop that accelerates tolerance, distorts sexual arousal patterns, and increases the likelihood of acting out on fetishes.

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GLP‑1 Medications: How They Support Weight Loss, Influence Addiction Pathways, and Fit Into a Holistic Recovery Lifestyle
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

GLP‑1 Medications: How They Support Weight Loss, Influence Addiction Pathways, and Fit Into a Holistic Recovery Lifestyle

In recent years, GLP‑1 medications such as semaglutide and tirzepatide have become widely known for their ability to support weight loss. But for people in addiction recovery, these medications have sparked a different kind of conversation — one that goes beyond weight and into the deeper neurobiology of cravings, impulse control, and reward.

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Controlling Alcohol Intake: How to Recognize When It Becomes a Problem — And What Happens When You Stop for Good
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Controlling Alcohol Intake: How to Recognize When It Becomes a Problem — And What Happens When You Stop for Good

Alcohol is woven into our culture so tightly that many people don’t realize when their relationship with it has shifted from “social” to “problematic.” Unlike other substances, alcohol hides in plain sight. It’s legal, normalized, and socially encouraged — which makes it especially difficult for someone to look honestly at their drinking and admit that it’s harming them.

But the truth is simple: when alcohol begins to change who you are, you’ve lost the privilege of drinking. And reclaiming your life begins with recognizing that shift.

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Tapering Off Psychiatric Medication: Understanding the Motives, the Risks, and the Power of a Holistic Recovery Lifestyle
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Tapering Off Psychiatric Medication: Understanding the Motives, the Risks, and the Power of a Holistic Recovery Lifestyle

In addiction recovery, it’s common for people to reach a point where they begin questioning their psychiatric medications. They may feel clearer, healthier, more grounded, and more connected to themselves than they have in years. With this new clarity often comes a desire to “get off everything” and live a more natural, holistic life.

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Online Gambling Addiction: Understanding the Risks, Recognizing the Signs, and Finding a Path to Recovery
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Online Gambling Addiction: Understanding the Risks, Recognizing the Signs, and Finding a Path to Recovery

Online gambling has become one of the fastest‑growing addictions I see in my practice. What used to require a trip to a casino can now be accessed instantly—from a phone, tablet, or laptop—24 hours a day. For many people, gambling starts as entertainment. But for others, especially those dealing with stress, trauma, loneliness, or financial pressure, it can quickly become something far more dangerous.

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Radical Honesty and Its Essential Role in Addiction Recovery
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Radical Honesty and Its Essential Role in Addiction Recovery

In addiction treatment, few concepts are as transformative — or as uncomfortable — as radical honesty. It is not simply “telling the truth.” It is the practice of removing distortiondropping self‑protection, and facing reality without filters. For people in recovery, radical honesty becomes the foundation on which every other part of healing is built.

Addiction thrives in secrecy, denial, and half‑truths. Recovery thrives in clarity, accountability, and truth‑telling. The two cannot coexist.

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Understanding the NIHB Program: A Guide for Clients Seeking Support
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Understanding the NIHB Program: A Guide for Clients Seeking Support

When someone is living with addiction, mental‑health challenges, or the long‑term impacts of trauma, navigating the healthcare system can feel overwhelming. For many First Nations and Inuit clients, the Non‑Insured Health Benefits (NIHB) Program is a crucial lifeline—one that ensures access to essential health services that might otherwise be out of reach.

As an addiction specialist, I often work with clients who don’t realize they qualify for NIHB, or who aren’t sure what the program covers. Understanding this program can open the door to counselling, medication, medical supplies, and transportation to treatment—supports that can make recovery safer and more accessible.

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The Commitment Problem in Addiction — And the Transformation That Follows When Someone Finally Says “Yes” to Recovery
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Commitment Problem in Addiction — And the Transformation That Follows When Someone Finally Says “Yes” to Recovery

One of the hardest truths in this field is that the person who needs help the most is often the least able to commit to getting well. Families see the destruction, friends see the decline, clinicians see the risk — but the person in active addiction often feels trapped, overwhelmed, or numb.

Commitment is not a simple decision. It is a psychological, neurological, and emotional turning point. And when it finally happens, the change can be profound.

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Being Healthy in Mind, Body, and Spirit: Why Total Abstinence Creates the Conditions for a Whole Life
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Being Healthy in Mind, Body, and Spirit: Why Total Abstinence Creates the Conditions for a Whole Life

Health is not one thing. It’s not just a strong body, a calm mind, or a sense of purpose. It’s the integration of all three. When someone is mentally grounded, physically well, and spiritually connected, they experience a kind of internal alignment that makes destructive behaviours unnecessary.

For people with addiction histories—or even those who simply use substances to cope—total abstinence is not about deprivation. It’s about creating the internal stability needed for a full, meaningful life.

Below is a clear, grounded look at why dopamine‑driven behaviours pull people off balance, why abstinence restores homeostasis, and how a person’s life expands once they become whole.

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The Hidden Link Between Social Media, Gaming, Cell‑Phone Addiction and OCD
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Hidden Link Between Social Media, Gaming, Cell‑Phone Addiction and OCD

In recent years, I’ve seen a dramatic rise in clients struggling with behavioural addictions—especially social media, gaming, and compulsive phone use. What many people don’t realize is how closely these behaviours are tied to Obsessive‑Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and OCD‑like patterns.

These addictions don’t just coexist with OCD.
They fuel itintensify it, and make recovery harder.

Understanding this connection is the first step toward healing.

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The Teenage Brain, Addiction, and the Power of 30 Days of Abstinence
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Teenage Brain, Addiction, and the Power of 30 Days of Abstinence

The teenage brain is extraordinary. It’s creative, adaptable, emotionally intense, and wired for exploration. But it is also unfinished. The areas responsible for judgment, impulse control, emotional regulation, and long‑term planning are still developing well into the mid‑20s. This makes teens far more vulnerable to the effects of substances—especially cannabis and alcohol, the two most commonly used drugs among young people.

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The Insidious Nature of Alcohol and Cocaine — And the Road to Recovery
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Insidious Nature of Alcohol and Cocaine — And the Road to Recovery

The combination of alcohol and cocaine is one of the most deceptively dangerous pairings in addiction medicine. Individually, each substance carries its own risks. Together, they create a biochemical storm that is far more destructive than most people realize. As an addiction specialist, I’ve seen this combination derail careers, relationships, health, and identity — often faster than either substance alone.

This blog explores why the alcohol–cocaine pairing is uniquely harmful, how it traps people in a cycle that feels impossible to escape, and what recovery actually looks like.

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Why People With ADHD Chase Dopamine — And How They Can Find Healthier Ways to Regulate Their Minds
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Why People With ADHD Chase Dopamine — And How They Can Find Healthier Ways to Regulate Their Minds

People with ADHD aren’t “weak,” “impulsive,” or “undisciplined.” They are dopamine‑deficient, and their brains are constantly trying to correct that imbalance. When you understand this, the entire pattern of ADHD behaviour suddenly makes sense: the restlessness, the impulsivity, the hyperfocus, the boredom intolerance, the thrill‑seeking, the late‑night scrolling, the addictions.

ADHD isn’t a character flaw.
It’s a neurochemical hunger.

And when dopamine is low, the brain will look for it anywhere it can find it.

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