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Motivation for Using The Sinclair Method
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Motivation for Using The Sinclair Method

The Sinclair Method offers a science-based alternative to traditional abstinence-only approaches, helping people reduce drinking by retraining the brain’s reward system. While highly effective for many, it requires discipline, medical oversight, and integration with lifestyle changes to achieve lasting recovery.

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Acute vs. Chronic Alcoholism: Understanding the Difference
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Acute vs. Chronic Alcoholism: Understanding the Difference

Acute alcoholism refers to short-term, high-intensity drinking episodes (often binge drinking), while chronic alcoholism is a long-term, progressive condition marked by dependence and lasting health consequences. Both require different treatment approaches, and binge drinking sits on a dangerous line that can tip into chronic addiction.

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Recovery Beyond Abstinence: The Power of Meditation, Awareness, Connection, and Movement
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Recovery Beyond Abstinence: The Power of Meditation, Awareness, Connection, and Movement

Recovery from substance use or behavioral addictions is not simply about stopping the addictive behavior—it’s about building a new way of living. As an addiction specialist, I’ve seen countless individuals discover that true healing comes from nurturing the mind, body, and spirit. Five practices stand out as pillars of sustainable recovery: meditation, awareness, community connection, reconnecting with old friends, and physical exercise

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Chronic Alcoholism: The Battle Beneath the Surface
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Chronic Alcoholism: The Battle Beneath the Surface

Alcoholism is not simply “drinking too much.” It is a chronic, progressive illness that rewires the brain, erodes relationships, and devastates health. For those caught in its grip, the struggle is not just about alcohol—it’s about the insidious cycle of relapse, the phenomenon of craving, and the baffling inability to stop despite devastating consequences.

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Loving Someone Through Addiction: From External Motivation to Genuine Change
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Loving Someone Through Addiction: From External Motivation to Genuine Change

When your partner struggles with addiction, the journey can feel like walking a tightrope. You want to support them, but you also want to protect yourself. Often, I hear loved ones say: “He’s motivated to get well as long as I’m in the picture.”While this external motivation can spark the first steps toward recovery, lasting change requires something deeper—internal motivation.

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Chronic Cannabis and Pornography Use: The Brain, the Trap, and the Path to Recovery
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Chronic Cannabis and Pornography Use: The Brain, the Trap, and the Path to Recovery

Addiction isn’t always about hard drugs or alcohol. Two of the most underestimated yet deeply impactful struggles I see in my practice are chronic cannabis use and compulsive pornography consumption. On their own, each can alter brain chemistry and derail lives. Together, they create a cycle of sedation and stimulation that hijacks the brain’s reward system, leaving individuals trapped in patterns that feel impossible to break.

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Cannabis Today: Potency, Risks, and the Path to Recovery
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Cannabis Today: Potency, Risks, and the Path to Recovery

Cannabis has long been viewed as a “soft drug,” often minimized compared to substances like alcohol or opioids. But the cannabis available today is not the same as what was circulating decades ago. As an addiction specialist, I see more and more people struggling with cannabis use disorder, and it’s important to understand why.

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Crystal Meth Addiction: Why Turning to Alcohol Isn’t the Answer
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Crystal Meth Addiction: Why Turning to Alcohol Isn’t the Answer

Crystal methamphetamine is one of the most destructive substances I encounter in my practice. Its effects on the brain, body, and relationships are profound, and recovery requires courage, structure, and support. Yet one of the common pitfalls I see is when someone tries to replace meth with alcohol, believing it to be a “safer” alternative. The truth is: switching substances is not recovery—it’s substitution. And substitution often leads to new problems down the road.

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A Family Guide to Responding to Relapse
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

A Family Guide to Responding to Relapse

Relapse shakes families to their core, but it can also be a turning point. By setting boundaries, refusing to enable, and insisting on intervention, you protect yourself while giving your loved one the best chance at healing. Remember: you didn’t cause it, you can’t cure it, but you can choose how you respond.

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When Relapse Hits Home: A Guide for Loved Ones
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

When Relapse Hits Home: A Guide for Loved Ones

When someone you love relapses, it can feel like the ground has been pulled out from under you. You may experience:

  • Shock and disappointment: The hope you carried for their recovery feels shattered.

  • Anger and frustration: You may wonder why they “threw it all away.”

  • Fear and anxiety: Worrying about their safety, health, and future.

  • Grief: Mourning the version of them you thought was returning.

These emotions are normal. Relapse doesn’t just affect the person using—it ripples through the entire family system.

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Alcoholism & Drug Addiction: Why Treatment Is Essential
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Alcoholism & Drug Addiction: Why Treatment Is Essential

Addiction is often misunderstood. Many people see it as a matter of willpower, a bad habit, or a moral failing. But as an addiction specialist, I know the truth: alcoholism and drug addiction are chronic medical conditions that demand treatment. Left unaddressed, they erode health, relationships, and purpose. Managed with care, they can become the foundation for profound transformation.

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Internet Gambling: The Hidden Trap of the Digital Age
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Internet Gambling: The Hidden Trap of the Digital Age

The rise of internet gambling has transformed the way people engage with games of chance. What once required a trip to a casino or betting shop can now be accessed instantly from a smartphone or laptop. While this convenience may seem harmless, it has created a dangerous environment where addiction can thrive—and where vulnerable individuals, including minors, are at risk.

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Dopamine on Overdrive: A Wake-Up Call for Parents Navigating Teen Habits
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Dopamine on Overdrive: A Wake-Up Call for Parents Navigating Teen Habits

The Dopamine Dilemma: Why It Matters

As an addiction specialist, I’ve seen firsthand how seemingly harmless habits—like fast food binges and endless scrolling—can evolve into patterns that hijack the brain’s reward system. At the heart of it all is dopamine, the neurotransmitter responsible for pleasure, motivation, and reinforcement. When teens repeatedly engage in high-stimulation activities, their brains adapt by demanding more to feel the same level of satisfaction. This is the slippery slope toward behavioral addiction.

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Loving Someone with Cocaine and Alcohol Addiction: A Message to the Spouse
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Loving Someone with Cocaine and Alcohol Addiction: A Message to the Spouse

If you’re married to someone battling cocaine and alcohol addiction, you already know the chaos it brings. The lies. The broken promises. The emotional rollercoaster. You’ve likely asked yourself, “How much more can I take?” And that’s not weakness—it’s wisdom.

Addiction is a disease, but it’s also a tornado. It doesn’t just destroy the person using—it pulls in everyone around them. As an addiction specialist, I’ve worked with countless spouses who are torn between love and survival. This blog is for you.

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Harm Reduction: A Lifeline, Not a Loophole
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Harm Reduction: A Lifeline, Not a Loophole

Harm reduction is a compassionate, evidence-based approach to addiction treatment. It prioritizes safety, dignity, and incremental healing—especially for those struggling with opioid use disorder (OUD). Two of the most effective tools in this model are methadone and Suboxone (buprenorphine/naloxone), both classified as Medication-Assisted Treatments (MATs).

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Dopamine Overload and Teen Behavioral Addictions: What Parents Need to Know—and Do
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Dopamine Overload and Teen Behavioral Addictions: What Parents Need to Know—and Do

We often think of addiction in terms of substances—alcohol, drugs, nicotine. But in today’s digital world, many teens are falling into a different kind of trap: behavioral addictions. These include compulsive use of social media, video games, online shopping, pornography, and even exercise or risk-taking. At the root of these behaviors is a powerful brain chemical: dopamine.

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When Porn and Marijuana Addiction Go Hand in Hand
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

When Porn and Marijuana Addiction Go Hand in Hand

In the world of addiction recovery, we often talk about substances and behaviors as separate struggles. But in reality, they frequently intertwine—feeding off each other, reinforcing the same cycles of escape, and deepening the same emotional wounds. Two of the most commonly paired addictions I see in my practice are pornography and marijuana. On their own, each can be destructive. Together, they can quietly overtake a person’s life.

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Why Awareness Is the Key to Relapse Prevention
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Why Awareness Is the Key to Relapse Prevention

As an addiction specialist, I often tell my clients: recovery isn’t just about quitting a substance—it’s about understanding your brain. Addiction hijacks the mind in ways that make relapse not just possible, but likely—unless we learn to recognize and respond to the internal tug-of-war between our emotional and logical selves.

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The Slippery Slope of Switching Substances: Trading One Addiction for Another
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Slippery Slope of Switching Substances: Trading One Addiction for Another

Recovery isn’t just about quitting a substance—it’s about changing a lifestyle, rewiring the brain, and healing the spirit. But one of the most common traps I see in early recovery is the belief that switching substances is safer than stopping altogether. For example, someone who’s quit marijuana and cocaine might think, “I’ll just drink socially now—it’s legal, it’s normal, it’s not my problem.”

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Chronic Marijuana Use and Behavioral Addictions: A Hidden Link
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Chronic Marijuana Use and Behavioral Addictions: A Hidden Link

As an addiction specialist, I’ve seen firsthand how substance use and behavioral addictions often intertwine in complex and surprising ways. One of the most overlooked relationships is the correlation between chronic marijuana use and behavioral addictions such as pornography and video gaming. While these behaviors may seem unrelated on the surface, they often share underlying psychological mechanisms—and when combined, they can reinforce each other in ways that deepen dependency and impair functioning.

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