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Loving Someone Through Addiction: From External Motivation to Genuine Change
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Loving Someone Through Addiction: From External Motivation to Genuine Change

When your partner struggles with addiction, the journey can feel like walking a tightrope. You want to support them, but you also want to protect yourself. Often, I hear loved ones say: “He’s motivated to get well as long as I’m in the picture.”While this external motivation can spark the first steps toward recovery, lasting change requires something deeper—internal motivation.

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A Family Guide to Responding to Relapse
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

A Family Guide to Responding to Relapse

Relapse shakes families to their core, but it can also be a turning point. By setting boundaries, refusing to enable, and insisting on intervention, you protect yourself while giving your loved one the best chance at healing. Remember: you didn’t cause it, you can’t cure it, but you can choose how you respond.

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When Relapse Hits Home: A Guide for Loved Ones
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

When Relapse Hits Home: A Guide for Loved Ones

When someone you love relapses, it can feel like the ground has been pulled out from under you. You may experience:

  • Shock and disappointment: The hope you carried for their recovery feels shattered.

  • Anger and frustration: You may wonder why they “threw it all away.”

  • Fear and anxiety: Worrying about their safety, health, and future.

  • Grief: Mourning the version of them you thought was returning.

These emotions are normal. Relapse doesn’t just affect the person using—it ripples through the entire family system.

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Alcoholism & Drug Addiction: Why Treatment Is Essential
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Alcoholism & Drug Addiction: Why Treatment Is Essential

Addiction is often misunderstood. Many people see it as a matter of willpower, a bad habit, or a moral failing. But as an addiction specialist, I know the truth: alcoholism and drug addiction are chronic medical conditions that demand treatment. Left unaddressed, they erode health, relationships, and purpose. Managed with care, they can become the foundation for profound transformation.

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The First 30 Days: Why Detox Is the Gateway to Healing
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The First 30 Days: Why Detox Is the Gateway to Healing

In the world of addiction recovery, few steps are as critical—or as misunderstood—as detox. It’s often seen as a hurdle to get past, a painful necessity before “real” treatment begins. But as an addiction specialist, I see detox differently. It’s not just a medical process—it’s a sacred reset. It’s the moment when the mind, body, and spirit begin to reclaim their original rhythm after being hijacked by substances.

The first 30 days of detox are intense, yes—but they’re also profoundly transformative.

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When Alcohol Meets Cocaine: Understanding the Double-Edged Danger
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

When Alcohol Meets Cocaine: Understanding the Double-Edged Danger

In the world of substance abuse, few combinations are as volatile—and as common—as alcohol and cocaine. On their own, each substance carries serious risks. Together, they create a chemical cocktail that’s not only dangerous but deeply deceptive. As an addiction specialist, I’ve worked with countless individuals caught in this dual trap. The good news? Recovery is possible. But first, we need to understand the nature of the beast.

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Addiction: A Lifelong Battle That Demands Lifelong Commitment
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Addiction: A Lifelong Battle That Demands Lifelong Commitment

As an addiction specialist, I’ve witnessed firsthand the profound toll addiction takes—not just on the body, but on the mind, relationships, and sense of self. One of the most misunderstood truths about addiction is that it’s not simply a phase or a bad habit. It’s a chronic, relapsing condition that rewires the brain and reshapes behavior. And while recovery is absolutely possible, it requires ongoing effort, vigilance, and an unwavering commitment to growth.

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Harm Reduction Treatment for Problem Drinking: A Balanced Approach
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Harm Reduction Treatment for Problem Drinking: A Balanced Approach

Harm reduction has emerged as a vital strategy in addressing problem drinking, offering an alternative to traditional abstinence-based models. Rather than insisting on complete sobriety, harm reduction focuses on reducing the negative consequences of alcohol use, meeting individuals where they are in their journey, and offering personalized solutions that can foster long-term well-being. 

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Supporting a Loved One Who Refuses Treatment: Balancing Empathy and Boundaries
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Supporting a Loved One Who Refuses Treatment: Balancing Empathy and Boundaries

Watching a loved one struggle with addiction while refusing treatment or detox can be heartbreaking. As an addiction specialist, I understand the delicate balance between offering empathy and enforcing consequences. While forcing someone into treatment is rarely effective, setting firm boundaries while showing compassion can create opportunities for change. 

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Holding a Loved One Accountable in Sobriety: A Guide for Supportive Allies
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Holding a Loved One Accountable in Sobriety: A Guide for Supportive Allies

As an addiction specialist, I understand the critical role that loved ones play in the recovery journey of individuals struggling with substance use disorders (SUD) and behavioural addictions. Accountability is a key factor in maintaining sobriety and preventing relapse. While it is essential to approach this responsibility with compassion and empathy, holding an addict accountable requires clear boundaries, consistent support, and constructive strategies. In this blog, we will explore how loved ones can effectively support and hold an individual accountable in their sobriety.

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The Dangers of Benzodiazepines: A Comprehensive Overview 
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Dangers of Benzodiazepines: A Comprehensive Overview 

As an addiction specialist, I have seen the profound impact that benzodiazepines can have on individuals' lives. Benzodiazepines, commonly known as "benzos," are a class of medications often prescribed for anxiety, insomnia, and other conditions. While they can be effective for short-term use, their potential for abuse, dependence, and serious health risks cannot be overlooked. In this blog, we will explore the dangers of benzodiazepines and why it is crucial to approach their use with caution.

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The Hidden Dangers of Cocaine Abuse: A Specialist's Perspective
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Hidden Dangers of Cocaine Abuse: A Specialist's Perspective

Cocaine, a powerful stimulant derived from the coca plant, has long been associated with euphoria and heightened alertness. However, beneath its seemingly alluring effects lies a dark reality that can wreak havoc on one's overall health. As an addiction specialist, I have witnessed firsthand the devastating impact of cocaine abuse on individuals and their loved ones. In this blog, we will explore the multifaceted effects of cocaine abuse on physical, mental, and social well-being.

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Relapse Prevention Plan: Your Path to Lasting Recovery
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Relapse Prevention Plan: Your Path to Lasting Recovery

Leaving a treatment facility can feel like a major milestone in your journey to recovery. You've worked hard to break free from the grip of addiction, and now you’re stepping into the world anew. But with this newfound freedom comes responsibility, and one of the most important steps you can take is to create a solid relapse prevention plan. Here’s how to make sure your recovery stays on track.

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The Benefits of Floatation Therapy in Treating Substance Use Disorders and Behavioural Addictions
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Benefits of Floatation Therapy in Treating Substance Use Disorders and Behavioural Addictions

What is Floatation Therapy?
Floatation therapy involves lying in a float tank filled with water and Epsom salts (magnesium sulfate). The high concentration of salt in the water creates buoyancy, allowing the body to float effortlessly on the surface. The tank is often soundproof and dark, removing external stimuli and helping individuals disconnect from the chaos of daily life. This controlled sensory deprivation allows the brain to enter a deeply meditative state, which can be transformative for both physical and emotional well-being.

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The Vital Role of Physical Fitness in Addiction Recovery
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Vital Role of Physical Fitness in Addiction Recovery

As an addiction specialist, I have seen the transformative power of physical fitness in the recovery process. Physical activity is not only essential for overall health, but it also plays a critical role in supporting individuals as they navigate their journey to sobriety. In this blog, we will explore the importance of physical fitness when recovering from addiction and how it can contribute to a more successful and sustainable recovery.

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Understanding Chronic Marijuana Use: A Specialist's Perspective on Short- and Long-Term Effects
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Understanding Chronic Marijuana Use: A Specialist's Perspective on Short- and Long-Term Effects

Marijuana, also known as cannabis, has become increasingly popular and widely accepted in many parts of the world. However, it's important to understand that chronic, long-term use of marijuana can have significant and far-reaching effects on both physical and mental health. As an addiction specialist, I want to shed light on the potential consequences of chronic marijuana use, highlighting both the short-term and long-term effects.

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Facing Resentments in Sobriety: A Specialist's Guide to Emotional Healing
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

Facing Resentments in Sobriety: A Specialist's Guide to Emotional Healing

Sobering up and overcoming addictive behaviours is a significant achievement, but it's often just the beginning of a journey towards emotional healing and personal growth. One of the challenges that many individuals face during this process is dealing with deep-seated resentments. Resentments can fester and hinder recovery, making it crucial to address and resolve them for long-term sobriety and well-being. As an addiction specialist, I offer some insights and strategies for facing and overcoming resentments once you begin your path to recovery.

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The Cost of a Dangerous Experiment: The Consequences of Trying Cocaine
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Cost of a Dangerous Experiment: The Consequences of Trying Cocaine

When someone tries cocaine for the first time, they may experience a rush of euphoria, increased energy, and heightened alertness. These effects are caused by a surge of dopamine in the brain, which creates a feeling of intense pleasure. However, this euphoria is short-lived and is often followed by a crash that includes feelings of agitation, paranoia, and fatigue. The intensity and duration of these effects can vary depending on the method of use, the dosage, and the individual's tolerance.

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The Continued Consequences of Substance Use and Behavioural Addictions: A Comprehensive Overview
Emily Kurnell Emily Kurnell

The Continued Consequences of Substance Use and Behavioural Addictions: A Comprehensive Overview

As an addiction specialist, I’ve witnessed the profound impact that continued substance use and behavioral addictions can have on every aspect of an individual’s life. Whether it's drugs, alcohol, or behavioural addictions like gambling or compulsive eating, the repercussions are far-reaching and can affect one's physical health, mental well-being, relationships, career, and overall quality of life. Understanding these consequences is crucial for recognizing the importance of seeking help and committing to recovery.

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